Just calm down sweetheart. Stress could be a huge reason why you have not concieved yet. I have been trying for over a year now. Back in August of last year I actually got pregnant and had an early miscarriage because of all the stress I had in my life. My job is very stressful and I was dealing with alot of stress at home as well. I was so disappointed. I am still trying to this day but I have finally come to grips with the fact that I cant obssess with it or its not going to happen for me. Any time I feel myself getting stressed out, I just close my eyes and take deep breaths, however many needed until I feel calm again. Another thing you should try is using ovulation kits. Alot of times web sites will give you set days that you should be ovulating based on your cycle and how many days your cycle last, these days could be a little off. I have found that I tend to ovulate 2 to 3 days before the projected time. This could deffidently keep you from actually getting pregnant. Just a few tips, and you are right, when God is ready for us to be mommies, he will bless us with children ; ). Good luck to you, and try to stay away from stressful things, life is too short to live it stressed out any way.