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Jul 27th 2009
I got married a year ago and have been trying different things but nothing seems to work. We Pray everyday and ask god to bless us with a child i know he will bless us at his time but i am really stressed out..
Aug 4th 2009
Just calm down sweetheart. Stress could be a huge reason why you have not concieved yet. I have been trying for over a year now. Back in August of last year I actually got pregnant and had an early miscarriage because of all the stress I had in my life. My job is very stressful and I was dealing with alot of stress at home as well. I was so disappointed. I am still trying to this day but I have finally come to grips with the fact that I cant obssess with it or its not going to happen for me. Any time I feel myself getting stressed out, I just close my eyes and take deep breaths, however many needed until I feel calm again. Another thing you should try is using ovulation kits. Alot of times web sites will give you set days that you should be ovulating based on your cycle and how many days your cycle last, these days could be a little off. I have found that I tend to ovulate 2 to 3 days before the projected time. This could deffidently keep you from actually getting pregnant. Just a few tips, and you are right, when God is ready for us to be mommies, he will bless us with children ; ). Good luck to you, and try to stay away from stressful things, life is too short to live it stressed out any way.
Sep 14th 2009
fablecreature, I could not have said it any better...
msquiroz: one word....yoga
It's very specific to the individual, I had to try 6 different yoga tapes/instructors before I found one I could relax and de-stress. I now do yoga in the morning and it's amazing what it does to clarify mind, body and spirit. Breathing is key, you will love it!
I too had difficulty conceiving, finally we went to a specialist and went on the clomid regimine with and IUI. Ask your OB.....there are avenues
Use the internet to find professionals, this is how I found out who to go to and what to do:)
Best of wishes to the both of you and your futures
Dec 15th 2009
I get my cycle every month I take the PN vitamins and I watch out for the ovulation days and still nothing:( we've only Been trying for few months but I don't understand how some ppl get pregnant from one night stands and yet others try and it doesn't happen! Any ideas in 28 and starting to worry!
Nov 14th 2010
well stop worrying, thats bc u guys keep thinking about..relax calm yourself thats all pray for god to give u his gift for a new life to come. relax thats all..go walk read a book..hear music relaxing like classical..in this season hear xmas carols..dont geet stressed out..you will get there...good luck
Jan 5th 2011
my hubby and i were stressing because we didn't want to bring a child into our lives yet but let nature take it's course; all that thinking of NO seemed to do the trick as we didn't get pregnant over 5 years of marriage; now we're both in our mid-30s and 10 years of marriage so we're ready and open BUT nothing, the doctor got me to do an ultrasound and found nothing wrong, as an anniversary gift my hubby is going to get his insides checked - true don't stress, yoga is great for opening insides and relaxing, kegels are great to bring the swimmers deeper in
another issue could be that my mom had 6 miscarriage type pregnancies before keeping one to term but she was stressed and pressured to have a kid, medications can also be bad
it can be frustrating when some people seem to be SO fertile and for others (like us) we try and try but nothing, not even any miscarriages - sometimes i think that if i could at least have a miscarriage then i would know that it's possible to have a baby naturally but it's the not knowing which is annoying
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